Welcome to The Netherlands!

It' s a great place to live! But it's not easy to blend in.....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Just arrived in The Netherlands and feel lost?

How to survive the Dutch culture

How to deal with Dutch colleagues?

Insulting comments, followed by the word “grapje” (just joking)

Highly educated, but still feeling a second-class person?

No matter how good you are, you’re still not Dutch

How to survive the Dutch culture

“Holland is a beautiful country, it’s a shame the Dutch live there”.

A phrase I have heard many times from expats, which, as “native” Dutch, I can somewhat understand.

The Dutch are famous (or infamous) for being direct. Just 63% of expats describe the local population as generally friendly, and another 24% find it hard to get used to the local culture.

But don’t worry, I can help you understand it, and more importantly, I can help you tolerate it! My lifecoaching and hypnotherapy services are here to guide and support you during your tenure in this beautiful country

“You’re here on an adventure, let me be your guide!”

Native Dutch with international awareness

Yes, I’m ‘native’ Dutch, so was my father, grandfather, great-grandfather, great-great-grandfather and so on….

I’ve worked in several international organizations, commercial roles, technical roles. All different kinds of interactions with non-Dutch professionals. I’ve been yelled at (custom in some cultures), I’ve been invited to people’s homes during international business trips (custom in many cultures, but not really here in The Netherlands!), I’ve probably stepped on toes in other cultures, but I’ve always been open to experience them and I’ve learned about them every day!

Besides, my wife isn’t Dutch as well, she had to learn the Dutch culture as an adult, with all challenges and frustrations. I could help her navigate through the Dutch etiquette.

Her line of work exposes her to expats, my involvement in her work allows me to help these expats, questions about the legal system, political system, but also about cultural aspects.

Many people suffer from anxiety of the unknown, I use hypnosis as a specific tool to break through the wall of (self imposed) limitations. I’ve been trained by the Dutch Institute of Hypnosis as well as the Robbins-Madanes Academy for lifecoaching.

Feel confident in the present of Dutchies!

Understand the directness

Dutch people are direct, so can you!

Comprehend the etiquette

Invited for dinner? Know what to do, know what to bring!

Afraid to ask 'stupid' questions?

I’m your “ask-me-anything” guy… I’ve heard it all, I’ve seen it all, no judgement here!

Don’t take my word for it…..

 

“Alexander helped me to understand how the Dutch people are, why you hardly see any expression on peoples faces, until Kings Day, or Soccer championships. Why the Dutch are how they are.”

– Alisa

 

“Turns out it’s nothing personal, we expats are just a specific group of people that stand out from the crowd. I’m happy I live in a large town so I’m not the only expat here. Alexander gave me the tools to not be bothered by ignorance”

– Sahir

What can you expect?

Simply spoken, I’ll be your “go-to-guy”, all kinds of questions you may have, I’ll be there for you. I can clarify situations for you, help you navigate through the Dutch life. If you start to feel anxious or uncomfortable, I can help you (with the use of hypnosis) to overcome this limitation so you are able to fully embrace the Dutch period of your life! 

Why me?

I’ve seen how hard it can be to “land” in a different culture….

Why my coaching approach?

Using hypnosis allows me to transform you faster and more sustainable!

Why you?

You deserve to enjoy life between the Dutchies!

Individual sessions

€75,-

Answering questions you may have about pretty much everything

Better understanding of the Dutchies

90 minute call / online session

1 individual session

All prices include VAT for private sessions. Business sessions are ex VAT

Gold Coaching Bundle

€700,-

Answering questions you may have about pretty much everything

Better understanding of the Dutchies

90 minute call, online or at BijSturing office session

10 sessions

Free hardcopy of the "Undutchables" book

Bundle expires 1 year after purchase

All prices include VAT for private sessions. Business sessions are ex VAT

Platinum Coaching Bundle

€1.300,-

Answering questions you may have about pretty much everything

Better understanding of the Dutchies

90 minute sessions

17 sessions similar to Gold Coaching bundle

3 sessions at your home or office location*

Alexander's private phonenumber, available for quick chats that can't wait until the next session

Free hardcopy of the "Undutchables" book

Bundle does not expire

*within the triangle Amsterdam-Utrecht-The Hague

All prices include VAT for private sessions. Business sessions are ex VAT

Frequently Asked Questions

Where is your coaching practice located?

The BijSturing coaching practice is located approximately 30 minutes south of Amsterdam, in the middle of the “green heart of Holland”. The town is called Nieuwveen and is part of the municipality Nieuwkoop.

Is hypnosis mandatory?

Don’t worry, hypnosis is never mandatory. But keep in mind (pun intended) that some limiting beliefs can ony be solved by circumventing the conscious mind. This is exactly what hypnosis is allowing me to do.

I will never put you in hypnosis if you don’t want it. And I will never make you do something while in hypnosis that you don’t want to do.

Can I share my bundle?

Yes of course! I can imagine the whole family may have similar questions. That’s why the Gold and Platinum bundles can also be used for group (family) sessions, or individuals sessions for individual members of the household.

The option of house visits in the Platinum bundle are ideal for family gatherings.

Depending on the size of the group, it may be wise to schedule 2 sessions back-to-back.

However, if you have purchased an individual session, you cannot use it for a group session. If you’re interested in a single occurence, group session, send me an email and we’ll work something out.

Is your coaching only to get used to live in The Netherlands?

Nope. This specific offer is aimed towards expats, but if you have brought your trauma’s and limiting beliefs with you, I’ll be more than willing to work with you on that too.

Everybody has a right to be happy!

It's not only about "finding your way in The Netherlands", it's about "finding your way in life"

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